Monday, March 30, 2009
Create an idea or product that you believe can be successful. This is easier said than done. Coming up with a viable product or idea is sometimes harder than constructing a business plan. Having a good business plan is important for every entrepreneur, but what if you do not have an idea upon which to build a plan?
Get your creative juices flowing. There are many different ways to accomplish this task. Play a game, read a book, paint a picture, play a sport, etc. The point is, do something that gets you thinking and then focus that energy into creating an idea/concept/product. Do not try to force an idea to occur because this will usually result in bad ideas! Take your time, focus your thought, and create the right product for you. Know your limits. Determining these factors will help you focus your thought process. For example, if you are interested in computers, but have no education or experience with computers outside of internet surfing or word processing, it will be difficult to create a marketable idea for computer software components. Keep your thought process reasonable. In other words, do not let your imagination run wild. When you become good at creating ideas, then you can let your imagination do some work, but not at first. Seize upon any inspiration. Sometimes, ideas will pop up at the oddest times. Get a small notebook to carry around with you and write ideas in. This way you can look at your notebook and later begin to develop your idea.
Identify a problem. For example, if you are interested in cooking, maybe you have a problem with the way an oven can dry out a chicken when cooking. Now that you have identified a problem, brainstorm and think of as many solutions as possible. It does not matter how crazy the solution is, just think about them and write them down. After you have written down every possible solution, no matter how crazy, go through the list and find the solution that you feel you can best accomplish. Surprise! You have probably come up with an original idea. This does not mean that you should pitch this idea tomorrow. All this means is that you should develop your idea, mold your idea, and perfect your idea into something you think people would buy if in the market. Also, this way of thinking will get your creative juices flowing. You may find yourself traveling a different path from your original field of interest. If this occurs, follow the thought until completion. You may be surprised where it leads!
Do not force your ideas, take a break if you need one, and be patient! Do not expect miracles the first time. Go through the process and everything should work out. Write down ideas when they hit or sit down, focus on your thought, find a problem, think of a solution, and develop your original idea.
Make sure to develop your idea before you attempt to write a business plan around it.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Ever had a friend take advantage of you? Well, some people don't realize that their friends are human. They also don't understand that their friends deserve respect. Don't jump to conclusions. If you think a friend is using you, think about it calmly and objectively. Think about how you think they are using you. If you are really stuck, it may be worth asking a mutual friend if he or she has spotted anything out of order recently.
Imagine your positions are switched and think up a possible situation (one where you think your friend used you is better). Think about your reactions to what your friends are saying/doing and vice versa. If they did something you'd never, ever do, then it's possible they are using you. (i.e.: friend asks for a CD, you'd give it back, he or she wouldn't and now ignores you = using) Confront your friend in a calm but assertive manner. Tell them your reasons for suspecting that they are using you. Apologize if you were wrong. It's not nice to be accused of using somebody.
Look them straight in the eye when confronting them. Don't joke around when confronting them. You want them to know you are being serious. Question them on their actions, they might have a reasonable answer that just needed explaining. Before you go around accusing people, make sure that it really is a problem and you're not just making a big deal out of nothing.
If you ask them once and are satisfied that they aren't using you, drop the topic. Don't ever accuse somebody of using you to get your own way, as this isn't nice. Don't bring along another friend, or the accuse might feel surrounded. Make sure it's one-on-one and you're in a comfortable setting. If you are not sure the friend is using you wait a while, ask other people and don't ask them about it right away because it may not be true!
I have two stress days. I was so stress yesterday and still stress today. Felt like I wanna punch somebody. Gusto kong manabunot ahhhh. Here is the whole story: Eto ba namang step daughter ko, he begged my husband ho buy a puppy 4 months ago. Well, she was so excited at first to have the puppy. She feed and played with the puppy, take her to the bathroom, after a few months the excited was gone, kasi she does not want any responsibility. Sabi ko to have a dog is life time commitment, she should have though of all the responsibility that she will be facing before asking for one. This step daughter of mine, ni mag wash ng damit at ng bedsheet di pa magawa. Super tamad! Nag decide ba naman sya a few days ago na ayaw na daw nya ng puppy, stress daw sa kanya. What! kako, ni wala na nga syang ginagawa d2 sa bahay. All she does is sleep,eat and shit.
She is so lazy, I don't hate my step daughter or anything like that but man.....she is so lazy, she doesn't even clean her bedroom if her dad does not tell her so. me and my husband exchange words about her. Sabi ko sa asawa ko that puppy is a living thing, she can't just dump the dog if she doesn't not want it. Is that what she is going to do if she get's pregnant? Take not.. this girl is 20 years old. so irresponsible! Of course , who am I to say things like that... Im just the step mom ..right? Every time I tell my hubby that, he doesn't say anything so, his side is with his daughter, its very obvious!
That's not the only problem I am having with his daughter, a lot more.... But I don't have any say about it. That is why I am so stress, no body to talk to about it...not even my husband. All I can do is voice out my anger blogging.Maybe it will ease the madness I am feeling right now. . No matter what kind pf patient I have, anyone who is facing the same issue as me, I am sure their patient will run out too. Ewan.......... buhay nga naman. I hope I can still hold on.
Friday, March 27, 2009
You may have taken travel for pleasure off of your priority list, but it's likely that you just altered how you're going to do that travel. What elements make travel worthwhile, fun, memorable? And let's not ignore that category of 'mandatory travel' that involves business, family crisis, job change, school, etc.










