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Friday, April 3, 2009

It's spring but still snowing in some places here in WA State. And the weather here in seattle is not very good. Last night, it rain like crazy. Was gloomy this morning and it was hailing, now the sun is up. What is going on!!!! of course it doesn't not help me for I am feeling under the weather still. My sinus is killing me, same time as my allergy is acting up. I feel miserable, cannot breath, sinus is burning. Took some medication, it help for a while. It look warm outside, but I don't know about that! Have not gone outside yet. The wind is kind of whipping. At least the sun is out.

I started watching ER the TV series when I first got here(US) which is 94. I watched every episode of it until I started working the night shift. I lost track of it, but my sister in-law taped every episode I had missed.

Last night, the last ER episode was shown. All the cast that ER came back last night. I always love ER, it was an amazing TV series,intense and now it's over. The last episode have a really nice ending. Hope every ER fan got to watched it last night.

Are you a single parent who is tired of hiring babysitter after babysitter and never getting to spend time with your little angel? Always feeling burnt out? Never feel like you are going to catch up?

Write down a list of all of your commitments and responsibilities and analyse it. The big commitments are easy to identify: working, volunteering, appointments, and activities. Don't forget to put the day to day stuff like laundry, dishes, and shopping on your list as well. Analize your list of commitments. Is there anything on that list that you can resign from, delegate to someone else, or hire help with? Are there things you can rearrange or group together to save time doing or getting to? Make the necessary changes to your schedule.

Buy a clean new calendar. Any calendar with space to write down what needs to get done will work. Weekly calendars work best.On your new calendar, start with writing your work schedule on it and then filling in the commitments that you have decided to keep. Color coding helps to identify the different types of commitments you have. Hire or set up someone to be the primary caregiver (daycare, grandmother, friend or relative) when you are away and set the pay rate in advance. Target obtaining services for the time that you need someone on a regular basis to watch your child, usually during your work hours. If money is tight and you have to pay for someone to watch your child, target using a regular service only for your work hours and then promptly pick up your child after work. Hire an occasional sitter for special occasions. Try to line up about 3-5 people that you can call to watch the little one in different situations that may come up..and they will. Do something fun with with your child every week. It does not have to be expensive, but try to vary the activities instead of doing the same thing every week. It will give you both something to look forward to and will relieve stress.

Always plan a month or two ahead, if possible. If you don't have childcare planned well in advance it will be much more difficult to find someone to watch the baby. Ask your boss/supervisor if you may be able to bring your child to work once in a while. Ask for a schedule change, if that would help. Spend undivided time with your child every day. If the child, especially younger children and babies becomes to used to another person, instead of their parent, they could become more attached to the other caretaker. Make sure your child is happy, even if you have had a bad day and are tired. You will enjoy your rest even more once you know your child is happy. Your children's smile is well worth what you are going through right now.

Color code your calendar with doctor's visits, work days, holidays, days off, etc. Always make sure that baby gets your undivided attention and affection for at least 1 hour a day.Hire or accept offers for help. It is amazing how much of a difference having an extra set of hands around for even an hour makes. Think about hiring a responsible neighborhood teenager to play or entertain your child while you get caught up on household chores. Always thank the people who do help you. Helping you is something they don't have to do. Be mindful that their help might not be the way you may do something, but help getting a job done is much better than having do everything yourself.

Choose your battles and don't waste time on the ones that you can't win or get you to where you want to be. Same goes for friends, family, and obligations.Keep items that you need to drop off in your car, a box in the trunk or passenger seat works great so they don't get lost. Combine trips to drop off items with your regular errands to save time and gas. Make and freeze meals in advance. Not only is this a great time and money saver, eating home cooked meals is usually healthier for you and your child too!Get organized! Save time by knowing where everything is and having a place for everything so you don't waste time searching for items you need.

Don't stress out when you do this, just relax and plan your schedule. Things get easier when you write them down and you are actually honest with yourself that you may be over committed. If things don't work out, do be afraid to go back to what you were doing before. However, try giving any new plan at least a month or so to work. Just because the first day didn't go as planned doesn't mean the next day won't be fantastic.


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